Do you ever wonder why some people become addicted to drugs,
and others, who most would assume to be doomed to follow in the disastrous
footsteps of a related addict, don’t? There
are definitely all types of scientific answers about ones’ chemistry, and
whether or not heredity contributes, but I’m no scientist, and science isn’t
always the right answer. Resilience is the
immunity, it is the reason why a select few don’t become drug addicts even when
the odds are stacked up against them.
Imagine growing up in a home where your primary, well lets
up the stakes, where your only caretaker (single parent home) is a drug addict,
and of course you live in what is considered to be a less than desirable
community (I’m being politically correct here), in a less than appealing
apartment, and you are pretty much home alone all the time from the age of 5 onward. What do you think the child’s odds are of not
becoming a product of his or her environment?
Most statistics, if not all of them, say that the odds are pretty low
that a child subjected to this type of environment will make it out alive, let
alone drug free.
So what’s the difference between me, and you, and her, and
him, pretty much any and all who may have been or are being subjected to an
environment littered with misery, defeat, depression, and drugs? Resilience is the difference, it always is,
always was, and always will be, even before we know what it is. I’m sure that the child spending birthdays
home alone, or pretty much doing everything and anything important and
monumental with absolutely no familial support whatsoever, doesn’t know what
resilience is, but I’m also sure that tomorrow he’ll go to school and he’ll
smile, he’ll laugh, and he’ll play as if all is well with the world, because
something in him knows that there is something better somewhere, and the show will
and must go on.
As defined by Google, “Resilience is the ability to roll
with the punches. When stress, adversity or trauma strikes, you still
experience anger, grief and pain, but you're able to keep functioning — both
physically and psychologically”. I don’t
know if you’re born with it, or if you develop it over time, and to be honest
who really cares so long as you have it.
Let’s teach it to the children who are being neglected and abused, let’s
teach it to those who are subjected to drug addicted environments, and let’s
just teach it to everyone for no reason at all other than to teach people how
to never give up, no matter what.
Vaccinations mandated from birth up to and even throughout
college work by creating within us immunities to potentially life threatening diseases, so why not mandate the readily available immunity
to drug abuse; resilience? Drug
abuse is very life threatening, and teaching resilience can eradicate it.
Resilience, did you get your dose today?
"I’m no scientist, and science isn’t always the right answer."
ReplyDeleteClearly, you're not. Because while science may not always be the whole answer, any answer that is grounded in feelings rather than scientific fact is ipso facto going to not actually answer anything.
"Let’s teach it [resilience] to the children..."
A worthy goal. But what if science eventually proves that you are, in fact, born with it? Then by definition it is unteachable.
"Resilience, did you get your dose today?"
Nope. Can't say that I did. Can you link to a curriculum I can follow? That I can use to educate those around me?